What To Do If Your Child Is a Victim of Sextortion

Understanding Sextortion

Sextortion is a form of online abuse where a person threatens to share sexual images or information unless demands are met. Most victims are tricked or manipulated into sending content. The abuser then uses fear and shame to maintain control.

This guide is here to help you respond, calmly, clearly, and with care.

First, Stay Grounded
Your child may feel frightened, ashamed, or convinced they’ve done something terribly wrong. You don’t need to have all the answers right away—but your presence and reassurance are vital.
“You are not alone. This is not your fault. I’m here with you.”

Avoid reacting with panic or blame. Take a deep breath, sit with them, and begin working through what comes next, together.

What You Should Do Immediately

Do not respond to the offender.
Do not send money, do not negotiate, and do not delete messages or content just yet.
Gather evidence.
Save screenshots of chats, usernames, images, and any threats. Note the date and time of contact.
Report it.